We are over half way through the programme and life here is already becoming a blur. The days seem to be merging as we travel across the city making appointments with other organisations, schools, government institutions and the endless search for a venue for the Big Event. Skills4Life, the workshop part of the programme is in full swing in all Districts and I've been able to undertake some teaching when other volunteers have fallen sick. My favourite lesson to teach is on Gender Inclusion and Exclusion and I have a new appreciation for teachers who are trying to convey difficult, sensitive and often vague concepts to young children. In the first school I taught in I was stood in front of 60-70 standard 9 boys and girls (14yrs old) asking them the qualities of a 'good woman'- " she should be a good cook, love her children, be respectful, be kind" and those of a 'good man'- "brave, bring money home, not smoke or drink alcohol" were the answers that came up time and time again. It was mine and Maddy's task to try and get them to then list the qualities of a 'good human' in the hope that they would list the same qualities and realise that our biological makeup shouldn't give us separate roles which have a negative impact. I asked the boys if they thought a 'good man' should also be able to cook family meals, to which they replied a straight out 'No' telling me that the men are working, so how can they cook the food? Maddy followed this up with stories of his childhood, telling the boys that he knew what it was like to be someone's brother- you come home from school, eat, play some football, watch TV and go to bed whilst your sister cooks, cleans, does her homework before going to sleep. By the end of the lesson they had all grasped the meaning of equal rights and indeed seemed determined that equality was just but discussing it in the classroom is a very different reality to stepping out onto the streets or into the home.
The next lesson was on Critical Thinking. The exercise was designed to encourage the students to consider other people's points of view, be non-judgemental and form opinions based on fact. They were given a case study- a young girl walks down the street wearing a short skirt and makeup and is teased by an adolescent boy (known as 'Eve teasing.') They were then read the opinions of four different people- the adolescent boy who felt the girl deserved to be teased because of the dress code she had chosen, another young girl who thought that the girl shouldn't have been teased but was wearing the wrong clothes, an old lady who thought the girl deserved to be teased as she was displaying a complete disrespect for her culture and community and finally a woman in her 20's who thought the behavior of the adolescent boy was far worse, as it is a human right to wear whatever you like and not be judged accordingly. We asked the boys and girls whose opinion they thought was correct and the overwhelming response was that the old lady was right, the girl should have been dressed in a sari and therefore deserved to be teased. Maddy then corrected them and drew their attention to the women in her 20's and explained about human rights and once again, equality, but for me I was shocked to see these young girls so eagerly showing their disregards for women wearing anything that doesn't cover them fully.
The rest of the time we were clearing up myths on HIV/AIDS and the modes of transmisson, I can't say I ever thought I would be stood shouting down a microphone 'No, you can't catch HIV from cooking utensils' but that day I did, and I hope it had some impact! Our spare time has been equally as busy, just a few days ago we took a trip to Mahabalipuram, a beach town just 2 1/2 hours from Chennai. Here the pace of life is 100x slower with cafes selling western food, real coffee, milkshakes, pancakes and even veggie lasagne! We arrived on Saturday afternoon after 4 hours of teaching and sat on cusions on the floor playing scrabble over an early evening dinner. Around us were other travellers all relaxing and reading. That evening we were invited to a party just outside of Mhabs to celebrate Angolian Independence Day with some local petroleum students. Yet another completely different experience in this country as we were picked up by a driver in his jeep taking 7 of us to a rented house with two pools, a garden of palm trees, DJs and a bbq. We stayed here until 7am trying to pick up Angolian dance moves, swimming and having some well deserved down time! The next day was spent on a beach named Tiger Cove- a tiger shaped rock by a secluded beach which was only discovered after the Tsunami. Here local fishermen took us out into the ocean on their boat, powered by a small motor which seemed to be operated by a bit a rope. We then took a walk around the numerous stone carvings that Mhabs in famous for and attempted to watch the sun go down from the top of the rocks, until our stomachs got the better of us!
The next day Steph and I went to our neighbor's primary school to celebrate Children's Day. We turned up about an hour before the school closed expecting to say a quick hello and watch the children in a cultural programme. Upon arrival we were ushered into a classroom of tiny children, and as more and more flooded in the principal entered and asked me which lesson we were going to teach. Our neighbor suggested we sing a Christian song, and so a rather painful rendition of 'Give Me Oil in My Lamp' followed- another moment I am not going to forget. Thinking on our feet we devised a dubbed-down version of lessons usually delivered to older children and spoke to the children about hygiene (how to wash your hands!) and then a quick lesson on identity followed by the Hokie-Cokie in the yard with the locals and parents watching on with what looked like utter shock.
I'm sure there are other actual events to re-tell but it is genuinely difficult to distinguish day from day here as every train journey or visit into a shop is an experience. Frankie and I have attended an elaborate Christian wedding which we were invited to during a walk around the village on a Sunday afternoon. The bride and groom must have been surprised to see us but nevertheless invited us to their reception where we watched them sit in a gold and pink throne on a stage infront of their guests performing various rituals and greeting their elders.
We've had some of the worst bus journeys known to man, with people so crammed in you don't need to hold onto anything, sweat falls from your face and down your back until eventually the driver stops because the door has fallen off- to some of the best train journeys, like today, when we sat on the floor in the doorway watching India fly past us. Yesterday Steph, Maddy and I visited a Chennai based music television channel to get coverage for the Big Event and afterwards sat on the beach eating corn-on-the-cob and discussing our thoughts on developed and developing countries and our perceptions of those from the East and the West. I'm becoming more and more interested in the Hijra community here, who we often see giving blessings on trains in amongst the beggars singing for money or selling jasmine for your hair. I have also taken an interest in the Hindu prophet, Sai Bubba, and a week or so ago a girl from our village took some of us to a temple dedicated to him. I find the temples really relaxing and it's fascinating to watch the locals carry out their daily rituals inside.
We finally have a date for the Big Event! December 3rd in Chennai with guest speakers from Tamil Nadu Aids Control Society and an HIV + person. As of tomorrow we are on the hunt for a celebrity and then organising the students who have taken action for HIV awareness to attend! It's almost 8pm here and so time for dinner and perhaps a game of Monopoly until it all begins again tomorrow...!
The next lesson was on Critical Thinking. The exercise was designed to encourage the students to consider other people's points of view, be non-judgemental and form opinions based on fact. They were given a case study- a young girl walks down the street wearing a short skirt and makeup and is teased by an adolescent boy (known as 'Eve teasing.') They were then read the opinions of four different people- the adolescent boy who felt the girl deserved to be teased because of the dress code she had chosen, another young girl who thought that the girl shouldn't have been teased but was wearing the wrong clothes, an old lady who thought the girl deserved to be teased as she was displaying a complete disrespect for her culture and community and finally a woman in her 20's who thought the behavior of the adolescent boy was far worse, as it is a human right to wear whatever you like and not be judged accordingly. We asked the boys and girls whose opinion they thought was correct and the overwhelming response was that the old lady was right, the girl should have been dressed in a sari and therefore deserved to be teased. Maddy then corrected them and drew their attention to the women in her 20's and explained about human rights and once again, equality, but for me I was shocked to see these young girls so eagerly showing their disregards for women wearing anything that doesn't cover them fully.
The rest of the time we were clearing up myths on HIV/AIDS and the modes of transmisson, I can't say I ever thought I would be stood shouting down a microphone 'No, you can't catch HIV from cooking utensils' but that day I did, and I hope it had some impact! Our spare time has been equally as busy, just a few days ago we took a trip to Mahabalipuram, a beach town just 2 1/2 hours from Chennai. Here the pace of life is 100x slower with cafes selling western food, real coffee, milkshakes, pancakes and even veggie lasagne! We arrived on Saturday afternoon after 4 hours of teaching and sat on cusions on the floor playing scrabble over an early evening dinner. Around us were other travellers all relaxing and reading. That evening we were invited to a party just outside of Mhabs to celebrate Angolian Independence Day with some local petroleum students. Yet another completely different experience in this country as we were picked up by a driver in his jeep taking 7 of us to a rented house with two pools, a garden of palm trees, DJs and a bbq. We stayed here until 7am trying to pick up Angolian dance moves, swimming and having some well deserved down time! The next day was spent on a beach named Tiger Cove- a tiger shaped rock by a secluded beach which was only discovered after the Tsunami. Here local fishermen took us out into the ocean on their boat, powered by a small motor which seemed to be operated by a bit a rope. We then took a walk around the numerous stone carvings that Mhabs in famous for and attempted to watch the sun go down from the top of the rocks, until our stomachs got the better of us!
The next day Steph and I went to our neighbor's primary school to celebrate Children's Day. We turned up about an hour before the school closed expecting to say a quick hello and watch the children in a cultural programme. Upon arrival we were ushered into a classroom of tiny children, and as more and more flooded in the principal entered and asked me which lesson we were going to teach. Our neighbor suggested we sing a Christian song, and so a rather painful rendition of 'Give Me Oil in My Lamp' followed- another moment I am not going to forget. Thinking on our feet we devised a dubbed-down version of lessons usually delivered to older children and spoke to the children about hygiene (how to wash your hands!) and then a quick lesson on identity followed by the Hokie-Cokie in the yard with the locals and parents watching on with what looked like utter shock.
I'm sure there are other actual events to re-tell but it is genuinely difficult to distinguish day from day here as every train journey or visit into a shop is an experience. Frankie and I have attended an elaborate Christian wedding which we were invited to during a walk around the village on a Sunday afternoon. The bride and groom must have been surprised to see us but nevertheless invited us to their reception where we watched them sit in a gold and pink throne on a stage infront of their guests performing various rituals and greeting their elders.
We've had some of the worst bus journeys known to man, with people so crammed in you don't need to hold onto anything, sweat falls from your face and down your back until eventually the driver stops because the door has fallen off- to some of the best train journeys, like today, when we sat on the floor in the doorway watching India fly past us. Yesterday Steph, Maddy and I visited a Chennai based music television channel to get coverage for the Big Event and afterwards sat on the beach eating corn-on-the-cob and discussing our thoughts on developed and developing countries and our perceptions of those from the East and the West. I'm becoming more and more interested in the Hijra community here, who we often see giving blessings on trains in amongst the beggars singing for money or selling jasmine for your hair. I have also taken an interest in the Hindu prophet, Sai Bubba, and a week or so ago a girl from our village took some of us to a temple dedicated to him. I find the temples really relaxing and it's fascinating to watch the locals carry out their daily rituals inside.
We finally have a date for the Big Event! December 3rd in Chennai with guest speakers from Tamil Nadu Aids Control Society and an HIV + person. As of tomorrow we are on the hunt for a celebrity and then organising the students who have taken action for HIV awareness to attend! It's almost 8pm here and so time for dinner and perhaps a game of Monopoly until it all begins again tomorrow...!